Sunday, March 12, 2006
Chapter 1 Developing Charisma-Lower Emotional Energy
Normally we think of sensuality or sexuality as belonging to this category but there are several others. Anger, fear, pain and anguish are all lower emotional energies. Determination and resolve are the traits that we acquire as we develop these energies. The development of these energies is not easy.
There is often a gap between the way we wish things were and the way things really are. The lower emotional energies fill that gap. At first we are confronted with negative or harmful physical circumstances that we have no control over. We are "victims" and feel the paralyzing despair of helplessness as events damage our lives and the lives of those we love. That is until we get fed up and decide to do something about the mess we are in.
We develop these energies by deliberately and methodically confronting our deepest fears and bringing them into full awareness. As we develop these energies we still feel fear but force ourselves into physical action to defend or protect ourselves from further damage and suffering. We learn to physically respond in an appropriate manner in spite of our fear.
In the jungle the roar of a lion makes some animals freeze with fear and the lion eats them. It makes other animals run like hell and they get away. How we deal with our own fear is quite similar. We can freeze and not do anything or we can move inspite of our fear and move forward toward our dreams. "It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all".
Through repeated frustrated experiences we become angry instead of fearful. We physically lash out in pain and rage at what ever is hurting us. Gradually we gain the ability to defend ourselves and are no longer "victims". A point is reached where we can use our anger in creative ways to propel us toward the fulfillment of our dreams. This is the development of courage, determination and resolve. "I'll be damned if I am going to let that stop me", is an example of using anger by turning it into resolve and determination.
The person that develops these traits has a magnetic charm and attraction that is emotionally powerful and overwhelming. He is a natural leader and takes control in emergency situations. This person overwhelms the opposition through shear force of will and personality. The aura radiates from this person and dominates all others in the room. When he walks in a room heads turn and notice.
This is a variant of raw sexual magnetism. Sexual magnetism is developed in the same manner through confronting and dealing with our own fears about human sexuality and closeness in relationships.
There is often a gap between the way we wish things were and the way things really are. The lower emotional energies fill that gap. At first we are confronted with negative or harmful physical circumstances that we have no control over. We are "victims" and feel the paralyzing despair of helplessness as events damage our lives and the lives of those we love. That is until we get fed up and decide to do something about the mess we are in.
We develop these energies by deliberately and methodically confronting our deepest fears and bringing them into full awareness. As we develop these energies we still feel fear but force ourselves into physical action to defend or protect ourselves from further damage and suffering. We learn to physically respond in an appropriate manner in spite of our fear.
In the jungle the roar of a lion makes some animals freeze with fear and the lion eats them. It makes other animals run like hell and they get away. How we deal with our own fear is quite similar. We can freeze and not do anything or we can move inspite of our fear and move forward toward our dreams. "It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all".
Through repeated frustrated experiences we become angry instead of fearful. We physically lash out in pain and rage at what ever is hurting us. Gradually we gain the ability to defend ourselves and are no longer "victims". A point is reached where we can use our anger in creative ways to propel us toward the fulfillment of our dreams. This is the development of courage, determination and resolve. "I'll be damned if I am going to let that stop me", is an example of using anger by turning it into resolve and determination.
The person that develops these traits has a magnetic charm and attraction that is emotionally powerful and overwhelming. He is a natural leader and takes control in emergency situations. This person overwhelms the opposition through shear force of will and personality. The aura radiates from this person and dominates all others in the room. When he walks in a room heads turn and notice.
This is a variant of raw sexual magnetism. Sexual magnetism is developed in the same manner through confronting and dealing with our own fears about human sexuality and closeness in relationships.
# posted by banjo @ 5:23 PM 
