Sunday, March 12, 2006
Chapter 1 Developing Charisma-Etheric Energy
This is the energy that forms the bonds between our parents, our siblings and others we love deeply. We form connections or bonds that are so strong we couldn't break them if we tried.
When these bonds are supportive and positive nothing in the world can prevent us from achieving our goals in life. Those that love us give us support and encouragement through the tough times and rejoice with us when we succeed. They share in our joy and we share in their joy. They share in our sorrow and we share in their sorrow. As a united force working collectively toward a common goal we are able to overcome all obstacles and achieve great things. That at least is the ideal situation.
When these bonds are abusive and negative it is impossible to achieve permanent happiness and satisfaction in life. These people and bonds drain us of our will and lower our self esteem. We become ineffective in our lives and doomed to struggle much harder than others. Our every effort toward happiness is sabotaged by these self defeating tendencies within us and those we love.
There are two ways we can develop this energy and use it to achieve positive bonds. The first way is through hard physical work. Hard physical work will generate etheric energy and create a powerful body that can withstand the abuses we subject it to. We can use hard physical work to create appropriate boundaries that keep negativity away from us. The physical act of "doing" successfully overwhelms those influences that say "you can't do". In this manner you physically prove to those that don't believe in you that you have the ability to achieve. Their resistance is overcome through the sheer intensity of your physical effort.
The second way to develop etheric energy is by going through some kind of psychotherapy or counseling to explore and bring into awareness the self-destructive aspects that we all have. In this manner we confront those issues and come to terms with them. We also learn how to act in a more appropriate manner. Doing this releases trapped and repressed energy allowing us to make productive use of it. The first method is to generate new energy. This second method is to reclaim energy that we already have but can't use.
The person that has highly developed this energy forms deep bonds of attachment everywhere he goes and is deeply loved by close personal friends. His friends are highly supportive of him and he is highly supportive of them. The magnetic charm and attraction he possesses lets others know he will always be there if they need him. This is a person that can be counted on. This is a person that is strong in themselves and their ability to live a productive life.
When these bonds are supportive and positive nothing in the world can prevent us from achieving our goals in life. Those that love us give us support and encouragement through the tough times and rejoice with us when we succeed. They share in our joy and we share in their joy. They share in our sorrow and we share in their sorrow. As a united force working collectively toward a common goal we are able to overcome all obstacles and achieve great things. That at least is the ideal situation.
When these bonds are abusive and negative it is impossible to achieve permanent happiness and satisfaction in life. These people and bonds drain us of our will and lower our self esteem. We become ineffective in our lives and doomed to struggle much harder than others. Our every effort toward happiness is sabotaged by these self defeating tendencies within us and those we love.
There are two ways we can develop this energy and use it to achieve positive bonds. The first way is through hard physical work. Hard physical work will generate etheric energy and create a powerful body that can withstand the abuses we subject it to. We can use hard physical work to create appropriate boundaries that keep negativity away from us. The physical act of "doing" successfully overwhelms those influences that say "you can't do". In this manner you physically prove to those that don't believe in you that you have the ability to achieve. Their resistance is overcome through the sheer intensity of your physical effort.
The second way to develop etheric energy is by going through some kind of psychotherapy or counseling to explore and bring into awareness the self-destructive aspects that we all have. In this manner we confront those issues and come to terms with them. We also learn how to act in a more appropriate manner. Doing this releases trapped and repressed energy allowing us to make productive use of it. The first method is to generate new energy. This second method is to reclaim energy that we already have but can't use.
The person that has highly developed this energy forms deep bonds of attachment everywhere he goes and is deeply loved by close personal friends. His friends are highly supportive of him and he is highly supportive of them. The magnetic charm and attraction he possesses lets others know he will always be there if they need him. This is a person that can be counted on. This is a person that is strong in themselves and their ability to live a productive life.
# posted by banjo @ 5:26 PM 
